Sex-Positive & Kink-Affirming Coaching for LGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergent Peeps like you
Develop the confidence to stand up for yourself, explore dating with ease, and get comfortable with your kinks.
Who I Work With:
Queer performers, kink-curious folks, and LGBTQIA+ & neurodivergent peeps
Individuals, couples, and poly groups eager to explore intimacy
Anyone wanting sex-positive coaching with a confident, sassy (yet very supportive) professional
My Approach:
Grounded in kink-positive, body-affirming coaching
Blend of relationship expertise with performer-level insight
Emphasis on safety, consent, and authenticity
Certified coach, ex-evangelical, recovering shame addict, with lived experience in sexual healing
confidently express yourself
🌈 What I Offer
Whether you're just beginning to explore or already deep in your kink journey, my coaching is tailored to your unique needs, boundaries, and desires.
🔥 Hands-On or Guided Demonstration
Some of us learn best by seeing, feeling, or doing—and that's celebrated here. I offer coaching that includes:
Literal demonstrations (solo or with you, depending on context and consent)
Hands-on instruction to support your somatic and sexual learning
Visual and experiential techniques for folks who don’t thrive with talk-only approaches
🧠 Neurodivergent-Affirming, Multi-Style Coaching
I adapt to your brain and body—especially for neurodivergent clients who need a coaching style that isn’t cookie-cutter. This might include:
Clear structure and visual aids
Collaborative scripting or roleplay
Movement-based or sensory approaches
Gentle pace, clear consent check-ins, and optional repetition
🖤 Kink-Positive Specialties
I bring deep lived and professional experience in a wide range of practices, including:
Edging and orgasm control
Urethral sounding
Fisting (giving/receiving)
BDSM (from basic power play to deep dominance/submission dynamics)
Aftercare, drop management, and emotional safety in play
Whether you’re exploring solo, with a partner, or as a performer wanting to show up more confidently in your body and boundaries, I create a space where your sexuality is welcomed, affirmed, and celebrated.
Why Work With Me?
Experience: I’m a certified coach with professional training
Sex-Positive Expertise: From kissing to fisting, I hold space for all your desires—no shame, no judgment
Vulnerability: I bring my same vulnerable self you've gotten to know online
Badass: We prioritize boundary-setting, and authenticity in coaching
Informed Safety: I've worked with many coaches and therapists, a few great ones, most of them lousy, and a few who were down right awful. Our sessions will be grounded in trust, consent, and empowerment.
How It Works
Step 1: Free First-Date Call
We connect to see if we're a comfortable match, and establish where you want to go.
Step 2: Personalized Coaching Plan
Whether you want to focus on dating, building your confidence, or trying out a kink for the first time, there's no one-size-fits-all.
Step 3: Ongoing Sessions
Weekly 1-on-1 confidential sessions with structured tools, personalized practices, somatic and mental-health guidance tailored to your goals.
Step 4: Track Your Evolution
Checkpoints, and honest feedback, so you make sure you're seeing growth, not just talking about it.
Who's This For?
🌶️ Kink-curious individuals ready for sex-positive, guided exploration
🌟 LGBTQIA+ performers who want intimacy, confidence, and safety on and off-stage
💞 Couples or poly networks seeking to build trust while exploring together
❤️🔥 Folks looking to reclaim sexual power and navigate pleasure with integrity
Alex helped me build the courage to be who I truly am.
In just three months, I’ve learned to explore and embrace my kinks.
One of the best decisions of my life.
Alex makes the hard work fun and serves it up with sass!
Safety & Consent Promise
Every session—whether edging, sounding, or relationship-based—is rooted in informed consent, trauma-sensitivity, and absolute confidentiality. Your boundaries are the blueprint of our work.
Ready to Get Started?
Book your free “First Date” call to get to know each other.
We'll agree on a personalized plan.
Invest in coaching sessions (a pay-what-supports-you sliding scale is available).