# Alex Gay > Certified somatic sex and relationship coach (known online as Alexxx Gay / @heyalexgay). Works with gay men and queer people, based in San Diego, offering both in-person sessions locally and online coaching worldwide. Certified (ICF PCC, Cuddlist). Specializes in kink exploration, erectile dysfunction, anxiety and intimacy, and nervous system regulation. Alex Gay (also known as Alexxx Gay) is a certified somatic sex and relationship coach working with gay men and queer folks on intimacy, kink exploration, body-based anxiety, and sexual confidence. Sessions are available in person in San Diego, CA, or online for clients anywhere. The approach blends somatic coaching, nervous system regulation, and harm-reduction education, with a warm, direct, destigmatizing style. ## Services - [Sex & Relationship Coaching](https://www.heyalexgay.com/sexrelationship-coaching): Program details and booking for in-person (San Diego) or online - [Book a Free Consultation](https://www.heyalexgay.com/consult): Free intro call to see if coaching is a good fit ## Content - [Blog / Articles](https://www.heyalexgay.com/guides): helpful articles on kink, intimacy, confidence, and sex education - [Kink Curious Podcast](https://www.heyalexgay.com/kink-curious-podcast): Erotic and educational podcast on kink, sex, and relationships featuring porn star guests ## About - [About Alex](https://www.heyalexgay.com/about)